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By Ayella Amuru
I have often struggled to understand "relationship experts" who attempt to explain the perspectives of both men and women. These experts incessantly discuss what men desire or expect from women, as well as what women expect from men. They try to "reason" or rationalize every aspect of the behavior of men and women, engaging in hour-long conversations on various platforms, including podcasts, radio talk shows, TV talk shows, and social media broadcast channels, all in an effort to provide a rational explanation for human behavior.
The drama never seems to end. They do all this while ignoring a basic biological fact: the primary function of all species in nature is to multiply or reproduce. Nature is indifferent to the endless drama between men and women; its sole concern is the outcome of their sexual progeny.
Essentially, there is no inherent natural expectation for men and women to coexist harmoniously. If such an expectation existed, there would be no divorces or breakups. What truly matters for the survival of the species is the act of reproduction, not the emotional content of the relationship.
All species, including humans, engage in sexual activity not out of love but to ensure their continuity. We exist today because of sex, not love—we are all products of sexual reproduction. Your parents may have despised each other, but regardless, you are here. You exist, and from nature's perspective, that is all that matters.
Ayella Amuru, the writer
